Monday, March 24, 2014

be thankful

have you been mad to your spouse because you think he/she never thank you enough?
have you been frustrated at your boss because he never say thank you for all the works he dumped to you?
did you felt bullied by your family members because you had to cook and clean the dishes after every meal?
If you have felt all the feelings above, you must be a great person.
However, may I ask again you one question?
HAVE YOU THANK YOUR CREATOR for the life that HE HAS BEEN GIVING TO YOU?
If you have, than you're the greatest person! :)

Sometimes we always complaint. We never satisfied with other people. Actually there's no need for you to feel so because it is hard to change people. So, what is the solution to be a happier person is by being a thankful person. People will forget but Allah NEVER FORGET. Allah has been giving you His MERCY...always be thankful to Him..

Last but not least, don't expect anyone to say thank you, or to appreciate you. Maybe to them you don't deserve their thank you because you haven't done good enough. Then correct yourself, forgive yourself, be kind to yourself by saying Alhamdulillah...astaghfirullah....ask forgiveness to Allah..and don't forget to SMILE!

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Iya dan Jangan

Jangan..

Jangan pandang rendah pada seseorang atau pada sesuatu perkara. I know very little. Kita disuruh 'bersangka baik atas setiap perkara'. keep on telling yourself...bersangka baik. Latih diri untuk bersangka baik atas setiap perkara. Keep on saying Alhamdulillah... keep on remembering Allah so that your mind will not be full with negative thoughts. Negative thoughts will kill you. Again...what you know is very little. Focus on to your duties dan berzikir dan berdoalah sentiasa kepada Allah....

Jangan merungut dengan kesusahan. Ingatlah semua yang terjadi atas izin Allah. Ucaplah innalillahiwainnailaihirajiun. Semoga Allah beri kesabaran dan menggantikan kesusahan dengan kesenangan.

Jangan rasa susah dengan tanggungjawab. Ingatkan bahawa tanggungjawab itu semua dari pada Allah.

Jangan rasa susah apabila terasa kita memikul tanggungjawab orang lain. Berhenti sejenak untuk berfikir dan tenangkan perasaan. Ucapkanlah Alhamdulillah...puji-pujian kepada Allah.. Sebenarnya apa yang kita fikir tidak semestinya betul. Allah lebih mengetahui. Ingatlah setiap perkara datangnya dari Allah. Mohon petunjuk dari Allah agar setiap apa yang dilakukan itu mendapat redha darinya.

Jangan terlalu banyak bergaul dan bercakap kerana kita mudah melakukan dosa dengan percakapan. Cakap yang terlalu banyak boleh mematikan hati. Cakap yang perlu sahaja. Usahakanlah... Avoid joining a group of noisy people talking about nothing really important. If they need your contribution, they will ask for it. Don't be a busy body.

Iya...

Bacalah Al-Quran.

Berdoalah, sambil berusaha, sambil bertawakkal.

Berzikir, bertakbir, bertahmid..

Tundukkan pandangan.

Diam, kerana diam adalah sifat orang berjaga-jaga. Orang yang bising senang diserang musuh. Ingatlah musuhmu paling utama adalah syaitan dan nafsumu sendiri.

----Akhirnya...Ya Allah...aku tahu bukan senang untuk menjadi baik. kuatkan azamku, usahaku, tawakkalku kepada Mu untuk berakhlak mulia Ya Allah....janganlah Engkau biarkan nasib kami ditentukan oleh diri kami sendiri Ya Allah...amin ya rabbal a'lamiin.

Friday, January 24, 2014

why worry

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim..
I am happy because I choose to be happy.
All the responsibilities I carry are determined by Allah The Almighty.
Why worry about not getting a PhD?
Is it because I have to pay back to KPT?
Or is it because I am afraid I cannot get other job to feed my babies?
No no no life is short so no worries
Improve myself and focus all energy on completing my duties
Afterall if I think I can, only with the permission of Him I may succeed.

Sunday, January 19, 2014

To Wageningen with family or not?

My scholarship will end next February 2015. I have about 1 year to finish. I must go back to Wageningen by latest June 2014. I may go alone, or I may go with my family. Going alone means I have to endure the hard feeling of leaving my babies. Going with my family means I have to struggle to manage my babies like sending them to school, cook, taking care of them and me struggle even harder to finish my phd. Both have their good and bad stories. Allah knows best! Amin.