Monday, November 14, 2011

rewards

It is a nature of human to long for rewards. We will be very happy when we get good marks in exams, our paper get published in renowned journal, and when people say good thing about us. Rewards will improve our confidence level and motivate us to work better and harder.

Therefore, it is so worth to remind ourselves to give rewards to our children, spouse, and friends whenever they deserve it. Don't be too stingy, please say something good to them. Must be something good... People don't know what is in your heart. If you love someone, say it, show them your love.

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Agree to disagree

Conflict has been part of human's life since the creation of the first man, Adam, Hawa, and their children. When a conflict occurs between two persons, mostly cause by different interest, people tend to judge which opinion is right or wrong. Unfortunately, no one is right or wrong but these two unlucky people will continue to be in conflict. Most of the time, so much energy will be wasted to negative feeling. So what should we do when we're in conflict??

1- Isolate yourself from the people whom you're having conflict, calm down and put aside your ego
2- Put yourself in their position and think the way they might be thinking
3- Relate their opinion with your opinion
4- Try to find the balance between the two opinions
5- Don't be mad, believe that no one is wrong and no one is right, it is just the difference!
6- Decide something that both parties will be in win-win situation

Lastly, conflict management needs practice. Try your best to always be calm and positive. Remember, keep telling yourself that others opinion also important. Never forget to ask help from Allah, as HE knows best what are the best for you.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

only 12%

Dear readers,
How do I use to the maximum all the potentials in me? I have lots of energy and ideas but always my time is wasted into something else which is less important. I have to force myself to do the besttttt!!!!!! I am the best!!