To Wageningen with family or not?

My scholarship will end next February 2015. I have about 1 year to finish. I must go back to Wageningen by latest June 2014. I may go alone, or I may go with my family. Going alone means I have to endure the hard feeling of leaving my babies. Going with my family means I have to struggle to manage my babies like sending them to school, cook, taking care of them and me struggle even harder to finish my phd. Both have their good and bad stories. Allah knows best! Amin.