Congratulation, you're pregnant! A little khalifah is on his way!

Assalamualaikum warahmatullah and peace be upon you... :)

What was your feeling last time when you know that you were pregnant? Hee...feeling down? Nervous? Worry? Happy? or....?? Mine was like a bowl of garden salad mixed with more than one salad dressing! Haha...what an analogy! It is difficult to describe especially if it is unplanned. :) But for a muslim, we MUST be grateful to Allah....

Have you ever said congratulation to your friend when you know that she's pregnant? If you haven't, then hurry up. You must say so. It is because, being pregnant is never easy. Pregnant ladies really need support from people around them. Please avoid these kind of sentences.."eeiii...poor your kids, they are still small and they need your attention, who's going to look after your kids then?"...or.. "eh, don't you feel tired? why didn't you wait at least for another year to get pregnant?"...or...."hey, you are a student, how are going to cope with your life after this?" .. These kind of sentences will kill that person. She knows better than you of what is going to happen next..and she'll be the one who will face all the difficulties that you mentioned. Please...please say only good words to them. Good words will motivate them, and in turn, they will have a higher tendency to become a better mom cum wife/worker/student.

And to all pregnant ladies, always be positive! No matter what you feel (some of you are terribly sick!), you must try to be happy and motivated. Don't put too much hope that others will understand you or help you..but you must believe that Allah is always there for you! So never forget to pray.

That's all, thank you. Bye!